Conflict, Christ, and the Church

1 Corinthians 6:1-11

Summary
Paul reminds the church that conflict among believers is not surprising—but how we handle it reveals who we are. In Christ we have been washed, sanctified, and justified, so our disputes must be shaped by the gospel rather than the patterns of the world. This passage calls us to respond to hurt with humility, seek wise and godly help, and live out the reconciling grace we have received in Jesus.

Discussion Questions

• Why do you think Paul is so perplexed and animated in this passage?
• What does Paul mean when he calls the believers “saints,” and why is that so important for how they treat one another?
• Do you agree that conflict is inevitable in a close Christian community?  Why? 
• What encouragement would you give to a new Christian who might be realizing that it is possible to experience hurt and pain even within the church?
• When you are hurt or wronged, which do you tend toward more: fighting back or pulling away? Why?
• What do you think Paul means by “Why not rather suffer wrong?” How does that challenge our instincts?
• What’s the difference between absorbing wrong for the sake of love and ignoring real harm?
• What might it look like today for Christians to seek wise, godly help inside the church when conflicts arise?
• How does verse 11 (“you were washed…sanctified…justified”) reshape the way we see ourselves and others in conflict?
• Why is forgetting who we are in Christ so dangerous when we are hurt or angry?
• Is there a relationship right now where God may be calling you to move toward reconciliation, humility, or forgiveness?
• What would it look like this week to stop rowing with your own “oars” and instead trust Christ to work through the conflict?